Can love ever be perfect?

I once thought so..
I've been "in love" a few times but I don't think I know what real love feels like, or if such a thing even exists. Honestly, 90% of the adult human population believes that they have been in love at some point in their lives, but if real or true love so to speak, is so hard to find, how do we so frequently find ourselves in it?
I just imagine real love to be something that can't be determined at first sight or at some cheesy ball. I envision real love to feel like no other imitation of love that we as people create in our minds. It would cause a person to trust that love so much that there would never be any question of infidelity. It would allow a person with so many insecurities to feel confident without condition.
A perfect love would have to be so powerful that even you couldn't control it, right?